14. Your
user
manual
@cunningminx
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15. Your
user
Tab A goes
into Slot B? manual
@cunningminx
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16. User Manual: Part A
Family history
• Parents: relationship/major events
• Siblings: relationships/major events
• What are your basic traits?
• What is your baggage?
• What do you value in life?
@cunningminx
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17. User
Manual:
Part B
How you
work
emotionally
@cunningminx
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18. User Manual: Part B
How you work emotionally
I need to feel...
• Included
• Supported
• Opened up to
• Understood
@cunningminx
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19. User Manual: Part B
How you work emotionally
I need to feel...
Here, let
me help
• Included
• Supported
• Opened up to
• Understood
@cunningminx
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20. User Manual: Part C
How you work sexually
@cunningminx
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21. User Manual: Part C
How you work sexually
I hope he
puts these in
my butt!
What a
lovely pattern!
@cunningminx
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22. User Manual: Part C
How you work sexually
• What makes you giggle/feel weak?
• Which touches turn you on?
• What gestures are especially
meaningful?
• What is a special date for you?
@cunningminx
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24. User Manual: Part D
What is sex?
Wait...
what?!
We’re having
sex right now!
@cunningminx
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25. User Manual: Part D
What is sex?
• What is your take on casual sex?
• What is sex?
• What are you into?
• Tried and true turn-ons?
• What are you willing to try?
• What are your turn-offs?
@cunningminx
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26. Second to
NONE!
@cunningminx
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27. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
@cunningminx
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28. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
• spend time alone with your lover
@cunningminx
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29. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
• spend time alone with your lover
• spend time with your metamour
@cunningminx
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30. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
• spend time alone with your lover
• spend time with your metamour
• spend time together with both partners
@cunningminx
www.polyweekly.com
31. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
• spend time alone with your lover
• spend time with your metamour
• spend time together with both partners
• know what rules and restrictions are being placed on
you (emotional and sexual) and if and when they will
be lifted
@cunningminx
www.polyweekly.com
32. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
• spend time alone with your lover
• spend time with your metamour
• spend time together with both partners
• know what rules and restrictions are being placed on
you (emotional and sexual) and if and when they will
be lifted
• state and clarify your own needs and wants
@cunningminx
www.polyweekly.com
33. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
• spend time alone with your lover
• spend time with your metamour
• spend time together with both partners
• know what rules and restrictions are being placed on
you (emotional and sexual) and if and when they will
be lifted
• state and clarify your own needs and wants
• expect regular STD testing
@cunningminx
www.polyweekly.com
34. Secondary’s Bill of Rights
You have the right to...
• spend time alone with your lover
• spend time with your metamour
• spend time together with both partners
• know what rules and restrictions are being placed on
you (emotional and sexual) and if and when they will
be lifted
• state and clarify your own needs and wants
• expect regular STD testing
• explain what you want from the relationship
@cunningminx
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35. Your responsibilities
• Ask about ground rules
• Ask about your partners
• Ask about STD testing and
current forms of protection
• Check in regularly
@cunningminx
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36. Your responsibilities
Did you
remember to get
tested?
• Ask about ground rules
• Ask about your partners
• Ask about STD testing and
current forms of protection
• Check in regularly
@cunningminx
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37. How to
date a
couple
@cunningminx
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38. How to
date a
couple
No, dear,
tonight we find a
Hot Bi Babe!
@cunningminx
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39. What to do when they’re fighting
@cunningminx
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40. Warning signs
• “She’s OK with it”
• Comparisons
• “She doesn’t understand that”
• Life-changing decisions during
NRE
@cunningminx
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